自知之明的人，不埋怨人；了解命运的人，不埋怨天；埋怨别人的人，遭遇穷困；埋怨上天的人，没有志向。
So given a Time Turner, I would tell my 21-year-old self that personal happiness lies in knowing that life is not a check-list of acquisition or achievement. Your qualifications, your CV, are not your life, though you will meet many people of my age and older who confuse the two. Life is difficult, and complicated, and beyond anyone’s total control, and the humility to know that will enable you to survive its vicissitudes.