No matter who you are, no matter what you did, no matter where you've come from, you can always change, become a better version of yourself.
无论你是谁,无论你做过什么,无论你来自哪里,你总能改变,成为更好的自己。
我宁愿被尊重,也不愿被喜欢。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.