I don't want to be a leader. I want to be a learner.

The grind never stops.

Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

我曾在洛杉矶当卡车司机，去城市学院读书，我想报名参加陶艺课，但已经满了。所以我报了建筑课。这是个意外。