You can't please everyone, so just be yourself.
——赖忠诚之精神感人之深,国民革命军因此而起,1911年
In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.