你越是能增加对失败的恐惧，就越能激励人们避免失败。

I write to understand as much as to be understood.

"The dead are the only ones who truly know us."

You can pay for school but you can't buy class.

"Reality is not what happens to us, but what we make of what happens to us."

我不想成为下一个谁。我想成为第一个我自己。

心理学关注心理生活的“是什么”和“怎么样”，而非“为什么”。