韧性不是人们有或没有的特质，它涉及行为、思想和行动，任何人都可以学习和培养。

The writer is someone who plays with the body of his mother.

Quality is never an accident; it's the result of intelligent effort and relentless focus.

爱护自己的体面不如注重廉耻；求医用药不如善养性情；结党营私不如昭示信义；作威作福不如诚恳笃实；过多的表白不如谨小慎微；巧取声名不如矫正自己心念；恣意于奢侈恣逸，不如从名教中自取其乐；安置田宅不如给儿孙多施家教。