In other words, hold your horses when you're coming to judge people. You don't necessarily know what someone's truevalue is. That is an unknown part of them, and we shouldn't behave as though it is known. There is another source of solace and comfort for all this. When we think about failing in life, when we think about failure, one of the reasons why we fear failing is not just a loss of income, a loss of status. What we fear is the judgment and ridicule of others. And it exists.

在树枝下的一本诗集，一壶酒，一块面包——还有你在我身旁在荒野中歌唱——哦，荒野就是天堂！

做人就是与自己发生冲突。