The safest way to try and get what you want is to try and deserve what you want. It’s such a simple idea. It’s the golden rule so to speak. You want to deliver to the world what you would buy if you were on the other end.
现实主义不是复制自然，而是理解其本质。
"Words are the most powerful weapons; they can build empires or destroy them."
You can‘t reason someone out of a notion that they didn’t reason themselves into.