A writer's life is a highly vulnerable, almost naked activity. We don't have to weep about that. The writer makes his choice and is stuck with it. But it is true to say that you are open to all the winds, some of them icy indeed. You are out on your own, out on a limb. You find no shelter, no protection — unless you lie — in which case of course you have constructed your own protection and, it could be argued, become a politician.

孔子说：“有益的爱好有三种，有害的爱好有三种。爱好礼乐、爱好称赞别人的优点，爱好广结善友，有益处；爱好放荡、爱好闲逛、爱好大吃大喝，有害处。”

成功不在于终点，而在于旅程以及你一路所学到的东西。

Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and the ability to communicate openly and honestly.

谈判时，勿以抢更多的蛋糕为目标；以做一个更大的蛋糕为目标。