肮脏的小秘密是，你不必是个好人也能成为伟大的艺术家。

I always try to do things that scare me a little bit.

I will gyve thee in thine own courtship.

解释：想要变得刚强，必定先要保持柔和；想要变得强大，一定先要保持弱小。

心理学家必须是一个公正的观察者。

亲戚都不归附，也就不要对外办交际。 

"We are all descendants of successful maters, not unsuccessful ones, and this has shaped our mating psychology in profound ways."

The only thing I can rely on is my own perception, and that is always changing.