Boundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me. A boundary shows me where I end and someone else begins, leading me to a sense of ownership.

"I'm in love with you, and I'm not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things."

Every space has its own voice; our task is to listen.

当别人拒绝你的时候，不要在意。假设他们和你一样：忙碌、没时间、注意力分散。稍后再试一次，很神奇，第二次尝试往往会成功。

进化心理学不是关于人性中不可改变的部分，而是关于在我们祖先环境中具有适应性的部分。