The most important principle of positive psychology is that other people matter.
如果你不准备犯错,你永远不会想出任何原创的东西。
I cannot and do not live in the world of discretion, not as a writer, anyway. I would prefer to, I assure you—it would make life easier. But discretion is, unfortunately, not for novelists.
Automatic processes occur without intention, effort, or awareness, whereas controlled processes require attention and effort.