The most important principle of positive psychology is that other people matter.

如果你不准备犯错，你永远不会想出任何原创的东西。

晏子春秋

I cannot and do not live in the world of discretion, not as a writer, anyway. I would prefer to, I assure you—it would make life easier. But discretion is, unfortunately, not for novelists.

If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.

Automatic processes occur without intention, effort, or awareness, whereas controlled processes require attention and effort.

第一个错误的假设是质量意味着好、奢华、闪亮或重量。质量意味着符合要求。