度假时先去行程中最偏远的地方，绕开城市。在偏远地区，你会最大限度地感受到另类的冲击，然后在回来的路上，你会回到城市中熟悉的舒适。

The problem is, if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you'll also, by implication, and in a far more nasty way, believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there. I nother words, your position in life comes to seem not accidental, but merited and deserved. And that makes failure seem much more crushing.

记忆是一个充满版本的档案，而不是绝对真理。