常常,我们对一个成功人生的想象,不是来自我们自己,而是来自他人。如果你是个男人,你会以父亲做榜样,如果你是个女人,你会以母亲做榜样,精神分析已经重复说了80年,但很少有人真正听进去。但我的确相信这件事。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
我不想成为那种瘦瘦小小还露胸的人,我真的不想那样。
译文:连续地打仗,百姓就会感到劳苦;长期打仗,士兵就会感到疲惫。
"The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion."
The desert teaches you the value of water and the meaning of silence.