If a man will begin with certainties， he shall end in doubts； but if he will be content to begin with doubts， he shall end in certainties.

We were the people who were not in the papers. We lived in the blank white spaces at the edges of print. It gave us more freedom. We lived in the gaps between the stories.

The positive woman understands that men and women are different, and that those differences are to be celebrated, not denied.