你一生中最起码要做的事情是弄清楚你所希望的。而你能做的最多的事情就是活在那个希望之中。不是远远地欣赏它，而是直接生活在它的庇护之下。

"The longer you live, the more you realize that nothing is fixed, everyone will become a minority."

I have a vivid memory of what happened， and it was not what I expected. I expected to be applauded for my cleverness and arithmetic skills. "Jeff， you're so smart. You had to have made some tricky estimates， figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division." That's not what happened. Instead， my grandmother burst into tears. I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do. While my grandmother sat crying， my grandfather， who had been driving in silence， pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway. He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow. Was I in trouble？ My grandfather was a highly intelligent， quiet man. He had never said a harsh word to me， and maybe this was to be the first time？ Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother. I had no experience in this realm with my grandparents and no way to gauge what the consequences might be. We stopped beside the trailer. My grandfather looked at me， and after a bit of silence， he gently and calmly said， "Jeff， one day you'll understand that it's harder to be kind than clever."

The world doesn't have to be like this. Things can be different.

在进入交易之前，一定要有一个计划。

大脑在我们二十多岁时仍在形成，这意味着它更容易接受变化。