The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

因果推理需要仔细思考分析背后的假设。

我不需要融入，我生来就是为了与众不同。