I don't give a damn if you're offended. I'm not gonna stop.
用礼义来教化人心,就不会有邪恶的思想出现;用教育来治理百姓,就不会有祸乱发生,刑罚不是首要手段!这教化的智慧,太伟大了!并且通过教育和礼仪来引导人们,远比强制措施更为有效!
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
一无所有只能换来一无所有。