家庭和谐，事业才能顺利。  

I think the most important thing in life is self-love, because if you don't have self-love, and respect for everything about your own body, your own soul, your own capsule, then how can you have a healthy relationship with anyone else?

The most important thing in a database is the data model. If you get the data model right, everything else will follow.

注释：怨恨产生于不能容忍他人的小过错，祸患产生于事先没有谋划。