The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.
君子容易事奉,但要想讨得他的喜欢则很难。以不正当的方式讨他喜欢,他是不会喜欢的;但他在用人上,却能做到量才使用。小人难以事奉,但要想博得他的欢心则很容易。如果以不正当的手段讨他喜欢,他是会喜欢的;但当他用人时,则会求全责备。
Another thing, of course, is that life will have terrible blows in it, horrible blows, unfair blows.It doesn't matter.And some people recover and others don't…