The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
最痛苦的事情是在太爱一个人的过程中失去自己，忘记了你也很特别。
There is no doubt that in exchanging a self-centered for a selfless life we gain enormously in self-esteem. The vanity of the selfless, even those who practice utmost humility, is boundless.
对上帝的观念越强大和生动，它将越影响我们的生活和性格。