Learn how to learn from those you disagree with, or even offend you. See if you can find the truth in what they believe.
我要看看谁最有孝心,最贤惠,然后我将给她最大的恩惠。
The true teacher defends his pupils against his own personal influence. He inspires self-distrust. He guides their eyes from himself to the spirit that quickens him. He will have no disciple.