If everything was perfect, you would never learn and you would never grow.
最好的设计来自于对理论和背景的深刻理解。
That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.
We say of some things that they can't be forgiven, or that we will never forgive ourselves. But we do—we do it all the time.
善良一点，因为每个人都在与人生苦战，如果你想真正了解他人，你只需要用心去看。