You have to believe in yourself when no one else does.

最好的建筑是那些在使用中消失的建筑。

Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.

Literature should be a thorn in the side of society

You have to love before you can be relentless.

有怒气要尽力消化，有过错要仔细检讨。