You could be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you yourself don't know it, all of that doesn't even matter.

【译文】 孔子说：“听从花言巧语就会丧失自己的美德，小事不忍耐就会搅乱大事情。”

最成功的人是那些擅长备用计划的人。