独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人,才能爱,分享,进入另一个人最深的核心——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
Literature is the bridge between the visible and the invisible, the spoken and the unspoken.
The human being is the only animal that thinks about the future.
成功是一种心态。如果你想要成功,就开始把自己当成一个成功者
Men become civilized, not in proportion to their willingness to believe, but in proportion to their readiness to doubt.
"You can never know everything, and part of what you know is always wrong."