"The hustle is real, but so is the reward."
The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective. You don't have control over your situation. But you have a choice about how you view it.
大自然赋予我形体使我负载,赋予我生命使我劳碌,使我变老以得到安闲,使我死亡以得到安息。所以能把活着当作好事,也就能把死去当作好事了。