When I accept myself as I am, then I can change.
当我接受自己本来的样子时，我就能改变。
The only learning which significantly influences behavior is self-discovered, self-appropriated learning.
唯一能显著影响行为的学习是自我发现、自我吸收的学习。
In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
在我早期的职业生涯中，我一直在问：我如何治疗、治愈或改变这个人？现在我会这样表述这个问题：我如何提供一种关系，让这个人可以利用它来实现自己的个人成长？
The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others.
唯一无法得到帮助的人是那些责备他人的人。
When someone really hears you without passing judgment on you, without trying to take responsibility for you, without trying to mold you, it feels damn good!
The only way to understand another culture is to assume the frame of reference of that culture.
People are just as wonderful as sunsets if you let them be. When I look at a sunset, I don't find myself saying, 'Soften the orange a bit on the right hand corner.' I don't try to control a sunset. I watch with awe as it unfolds.
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.
When I look at the world I'm pessimistic, but when I look at people I am optimistic.
The facts are always friendly, every bit of evidence one can acquire, in any area, leads one that much closer to what is true.
事实总是友好的，一个人在任何领域获得的每一点证据，都会让他更接近真相。
When someone really hears you without passing judgment on you, without trying to take responsibility for you, without trying to mold you, it feels damn good!
当有人真正倾听你而不对你做出评判，不试图为你承担责任，不试图塑造你时，感觉真是太好了！
The very essence of the creative is its novelty, and hence we have no standard by which to judge it.
The very essence of the creative is its novelty, and hence we have no standard by which to judge it.
创造性的本质在于它的新颖性，因此我们没有标准来评判它。
The only way to understand another culture is to assume the frame of reference of that culture.