The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.
I don't care if you're black, white, straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian, short, tall, fat, skinny, rich or poor. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. Simple as that.
儒家所谓,“纵心所欲不逾矩”,道家所谓,“无为”,佛家所谓,“清净虚空”,其实说的都是一个道理,就是精神上的自由自在的状态。达到这种境界,就消解了得与失、荣与辱的界限,一切的一切就如同“庭前花开花落”、“天上云卷云舒”一般自然而然,荣辱不惊,无忧无惧。