当有人真正倾听你而不对你做出评判，不试图为你承担责任，不试图塑造你时，感觉真是太好了！
Children totally accept — and crave — family rules. “In our family we have a rule for X” is the only excuse a parent needs for setting a family policy. In fact， “I have a rule for X” is the only excuse you need for your own personal policies.
痛苦可以是一种知识形式。