There is no despair so absolute as that which comes with the first moments of our first great sorrow, when we have not yet known what it is to have suffered and be healed, to have despaired and have recovered.
我们所看到的改变了我们所知道的。我们所知道的改变了我们所看到的。
译文：命运中有的终究会有，命运里没有的就不要强求。赏析：面对错综复杂的社会，人应该积极进取，努力向前，但无奈的现实，总是不如意，有时我们也应放低姿态，学会自我安慰。
The mind is not a thing, but a process.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have."