A pair of lovers premarital understand each other well or character special similar, this does not mean that after their marriage can be happy. They are often get later distance farther and farther, each other troubles. Since you have with this person for life, to his faults know as little as possible.
一对爱人婚前彼此非常了解或性格特别相似，这并不能说明他们婚后会幸福。他们往往是弄到后来距离越来越远，彼此烦恼。你既然得和这个人过一辈子，对他的缺点知道得越少越好。
The weight of the past is heavier than the future.
I believe that we are lost here in America, but I believe we shall be found.
Sometimes the only way out is through.