当你到了人生谷底，到那时候，你可以难过一段时间，给自己时间去哀悼你认为你可能失去的一切，但关键在于：从每个失败和遭遇中学习，特别是你的每个错误，都教会并迫使你成为真正的自己，然后想想接下来怎么做。

"A good book is an event in my life."

When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.

要想被爱，就要变得可爱。

Man is always something more than what he knows of himself. He is not what he is simply once and for all, but is a process.