生活不是待解的谜题,而是待经历的故事。
风、海和移动的潮汐就是它们本来的样子。如果其中有奇迹、美丽和庄严,科学将会发现这些品质。
It wasn't only wickedness and scheming that made people unhappy, it was confusion and misunderstanding; above all, it was the failure to grasp the simple truth that other people are as real as you.
In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?