"The goal is not to mourn the lost futures, but to use them as a resource for the struggle to come."

Take time every day to do something for yourself.

出自唐代孚上座禅师《无题》，意思是现今已开悟了，甚至睡觉时都能与与真理契合，再也没有闲愁恶梦了！无论什么样的梅花，都一个模样，一样的香气，大小无碍、无所谓了。

Memories， even your most precious ones， fade surprisingly quickly. But I don’t go along with that. The memories I value most， I don’t ever see them fading.