Twenty years of romance make a woman look like a ruin; but twenty years of marriages make her look like a public building.

To be or not to be,that's a question.

The writer’s life is a life of humiliation.

释义：谦虚的君子，即使处于卑微的地位，也能以谦虚的态度自我约束，而不因为位卑，就在品德方面放松修养。现常用“卑以自牧”表示以谦卑自守，以谦卑的态度修养自心。