二十年的爱情让女人犹如一片断痕残壁，但二十年的婚姻则让她好似一栋公共建筑。
Twenty years of romance make a woman look like a ruin; but twenty years of marriages make her look like a public building.
You build your life around the fact that you are going to die, and then you don’t die.
Life is not fair; get used to it.