领导力在于让他人因你的存在而变得更好，并确保这种影响在你离开后依然持续。
If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down.
Was everyone else really as alive as she was?... If the answer was yes, then the world, the social world, was unbearably complicated, with two billion voices, and everyone’s thoughts striving in equal importance and everyone’s claim on life as intense, and everyone thinking they were unique, when no one was. One could drown in irrelevance.