释义：失败了不要总陷入后悔中，不能错失机会。  

True leaders must dare to take responsibility and make decisions.

找到自己的最好方法就是在为他人服务中迷失自己。

So what I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas, and make sure that we own them; that we are truly the authors of our own ambitions. Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want, and find out, at the end of the journey, that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.