解释：君子能尊重自己，然后推己及人，所以做事才有礼有节。

I don’t care what people think of me. I care what I think of myself.

诸位到书院为何，哪里仅仅限于是搞学问和写文章，具有一种技艺与特长，便可算得上是读书成才之人；我对所追求的也不过分计较，不过就是为子为臣为弟为友，尽到五种人伦的职责，共同成为恪守礼教的正人君子。

Some people are extraordinarily good at knowing the limits of their knowledge because they have to be.