"Grief is not a line, carrying you infinitely further from loss. It is a circle, and you come back, again and again, to the same place."
悲伤不是一条线，让你无限远离失去。它是一个圆，你会一次又一次回到同一个地方。
有些事情即使从未发生过，人们也会记得。
韧性的关键在于适应性。
我相信爱和联系的力量。
过去总是与我们同在，它塑造了我们是谁。
The most important single aspect of software development is to be clear about what you are trying to build.