人们如此沉迷于我的痛苦，但他们追随我是为了看我失败。
People fall so in love with my pain but they follow me to see me fail.
Each time you reach out to people， bring them a blessing； then they’ll be happy to see you when you bring them a problem.
【译文】 子张问仁，孔子说：“能在天下推行五种品德，就是仁了。“哪五种？”说：“庄重、宽厚、诚实、勤敏、慈惠，庄重就不会受侮辱，宽厚就会得到拥护，诚实就会受到重用，勤敏就会获得成功，慈惠就会有本钱使用人。”
I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself.
我从未认识过任何人是他们看起来的样子；或者至少，只是他们看起来的样子。