Confidence is not 'they will like me'. Confidence is 'I'll be fine if they don't'.
自信不是"他们会喜欢我",而是"如果他们不喜欢我,我也没关系"。
二十年后的你,会因未曾尝试的遗憾,远多于曾做过的错事。所以,解开缆绳吧!驶离安全的港湾,让信风鼓满船帆。去探索,去梦想,去发现。
The probability of a response is determined by its reinforcement history.