The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.
过去从未死去,它甚至还未过去。
You think it will never happen to you, that it cannot happen to you, that you are the only person in the world to whom none of these things will ever happen, and then, one by one, they all begin to happen to you, in the same way they happen to everyone else.
The more you are in a state of gratitude, the more you will attract things to be grateful for.