你必须能够自嘲，不要把自己看得太认真。
You have to be able to laugh at yourself, to not take yourself too seriously.
我写作是为了理解发生在我身上的事，将羞耻转化为语言。
Every intervention should leave things better than we found them.
也许宇宙中最反直觉的真理是：你给别人的越多，你得到的也越多。了解这一点是智慧的开始。