帮助他人的最好方式不是为他们做事，而是帮助他们为自己做事。
The best way to help people is not to do things for them, but to help them do things for themselves.
The destiny of man is in his own soul.
释义：小人做事只要有利就去做，无原则无底线；君子则坚守原则，不做不合道德正义之事，行事不刻意追求结果。