Get your facts first, and then you can distort them as much as you like.  
首先去取得你的事实,然后你才能够随心所欲的扭曲误解它。
生活是条沉船,但我们不要忘了在救生艇上高歌。
The reality is: sometimes you lose. And you're never too good to lose. You're never too big to lose. You're never too smart to lose. It happens.
The most important single aspect of software development is to be clear about what you are trying to build.