过分宠爱会使人变得傲慢,过多的恩惠反而可能引起怨恨!这平衡之道,太微妙了!并且给予恩惠要适度,以免适得其反!
天下的一切事物不可以没有标准,做人要有做人的标准,即原则;做事要有做事的标准,即规则;治国要有治国的标准,即法则。不遵循一定的标准而能成事者,自古以来是没有的。
"Writing is my way of screaming without making noise."
The sun, with all those planets revolving around it and dependent on it, can still ripen a bunch of grapes as if it had nothing else in the universe to do.