The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.
"The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it."
You are too generous to trifle with me. If your feelings are still what they were last April, tell me so at once. My affections and wishes are unchanged, but one word from you will silence me on this subject forever.
He had a way of making her feel safe, even in the most uncertain of times.