当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时，假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情，从而缓和冲突。
When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
The beauty of cinema is that it can transport you to another world.
英明君主的官吏，宰相必定是从地方官中选拔的，猛将必定是从士兵中提拔的